Update to an update
an update to this post:
crappy friend emailed me last night and pretty much told me that our friendship is over. she’s too far gone….and she’s not at all the person she used to be and doesn’t intend to be but that she’s sorry because she didn’t mean to hurt me and it’s not me, it’s her. i don’t know if she’ll ever get back to that point or not. it’s very sad for me though. i miss her so much. it’s like losing a family member. she WAS family to me. Nettie misses her and still asks about her. i feel like she died. and yet i’m so angry with her too. angry that she’s not willing to change. angry that she’d rather live a destructive life than fix it and have her loved ones back in her life. i just don’t understand.
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That blows! Sometimes people just get wrapped up in their own misery and can't dig themselves out.
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I am sorry. She sounds really selfish right now. I hope for her sake that some day she straightens out.
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i've been in similar situations. i know it's sad, but i always remind myself that people like that are often emotionally draining on me, so maybe it is better this way.
the ending of friendships sucks so much more than people give credit to. it can be very painful.
maybe now you'll have more time for a newer awesomer friend??
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