Perfect
The other day I took it upon myself to bitch and moan about Hubs on twitter. I only did this because 1. I was THAT mad and 2. my tweets are protected. I’ve never done this before. I rarely ever tell my friends when I’m angry with him. And if I DO tell them, I don’t go into detail. That’s just how I am. I don’t need my “dirty laundry” exposed for the world to see. That’s our business. So one of my very dear friends let me know that she likes to think that me and Hubs don’t argue or fight and that we’re always perfect together. I laughed and thought it was cute that she wanted that image of our lives in her head. Another friend of mine told me a few months ago that if Hubs and I didn’t work out she’d lose faith in marriage all together because we are the perfect couple. It’s nice to hear things like that. If only it were true. I will be the first to say that me and Hubs are a perfect match. But we also argue and bicker and have our bad days like every other couple. BUT they’re not huge fights. They’re fights over socks or dishes or chores. We’ve probably only had 2 big time major blow outs that required some work to get back to where we are. It’s been 11 years on working things out for us. We’re pros at it now. I promised my friend that I’d let her keep that image of us though in her head and not complain about Hubs on twitter anymore.
That’s what my blog is for anyway, right?
And out of our imperfect relationship, we sure did SOME things that are perfect 
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There is no such thing as a perfect marriage. Everyone argues or has disagreement, it’s just human nature. It doesn’t mean the marriage is on the brink of ending if you have a disagreement. Your friend needs to realize that it’s ok, sometimes even healthy for a married couple to argue. (I’m not talking about a knock down drag out fight, but a calm discussion of opposing viewpoints) It’s way better than holding your emotions inside, because soon you’ll either blow up at your spouse or start harboring a ton of resentment.
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i dunno becks.. i don’t think ANYONE has a perfect relationship, no matter how hard they try to make it look that way. i realize you don’t air your dirty laundry because it truly is no one’s business, but it’s probably nice to hear that you guys bicker and argue about stupid shit. otherwise, your relationship probably doesn’t seem real to people- like it’s so perfect… how come theirs isn’t? know what i mean? i just imagine that someone thinks you guys always get along 100% of the time, and they think that is how it’s supposed to be… and so they search for that in their lives, when in reality… that shit is make believe and no one gets along 100% of the time, unless they don’t give a shit about eachother. lol
i think i totally project this one forum relationship where she tried so hard to make it sound like her husband was always so perfect, and thoughtful and understanding….. but the reality was he called her names and told her when she was a fucking bitch (which she deserved). but she would NEVER let on to any of that.
not saying that is what you do.. omg, just saying. i’m going to stop saying now. LMFAO
i love you.
i love the man.
i want to shake my ass on him.
and grab your boobs.
our relationships are perfect
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Quit talking about it! I want to forget this fight and go back to thinking yall don’t fight. EVER. Love ya!
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You sure did make some perfect stuff! We are like that too. I don’t think any relationship is “perfect” and if people say theirs is….they’re lying.
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No such thing as a perfect marriage, we all fight sometimes. There are great marriages though and it sounds like you have one. The hubs and I rarely fight, usually only about little things. We sometimes let life get in the way and take each other for granted but we try not to. You’re girls are beautiful.
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You may not have a “perfect” marriage, but your kids are damn near perfect! LOL
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This is a great post. No relationship is perfect. And the ones that appear to be surely have things going on behind closed doors. The idea that you two communicate and are willing to work things out is what makes the two of you together the much more adorable!
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We are like you guys. We argue and bicker, but we never really fight, fight.
But also, I don’t air my dirty laundry. Never have, never will. Makes me crazy to listen to people diss their husband all the time.
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