Anissa
A lot of people don’t “get” the blog world. Or the Twitter world. They think that the friendships you make aren’t real. I’ve said this time and time again how many REAL friends I’ve made online- either through this blog, Twitter, or message boards. They’re people I laugh with. People I cry with. People I connect with. People I pray for. It just so happens that last night as I was chatting with some Twitter friends, we got word that Anissa Mayhew had a stroke and is in the ICU. Anissa has a daughter Hannah’s age. A daughter who has battled cancer. Her baby has had cancer. That in itself is enough of a hurdle without now battling her OWN health while her babies, all 3 of them, wait for her. I know people might not “get” this. But the second I heard about it, I was devastated. Sad for her that she puts her whole life into her daughter and now she’s helpless.
Last night Livie woke us up at 4 am and stayed awake. We turned on the TV and let her giggle and play while we laid in bed with her. Yes we were tired. Of course we would rather be sleeping. But instead I looked at Hubs and told him that there are so many parents who wish they could be doing this with their babies right now. Parents who have had to live through what I believe is the worst tragedy ever—losing your child. Thinking about Anissa who would love to be healthy and at home up with her child at 4 am instead of in the ICU–I’m most appreciative for my health and my family’s health. At the end of the day, it’s all that counts. That we’re happy and healthy.
Please pray for Anissa. Pray for someone that I’ve talked to a few times on Twitter but who has made me laugh a million times and inspired me even more.
EDIT:
If you want to help Anissa and her family, I put a donate button on the sidebar.





we ARE real friends. i don’t understand why that is such a difficult concept to understand. it shouldn’t be that far fetched of an idea anymore.. not with all the social networking sites, and ways you can connect with people you’ve never met before.
i am devastated and heartbroken. but i am convinced she WILL pull through this. she WILL. she has to.
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Some day people will stop saying that internet friends aren’t real friends. Some day, people won’t question it. But those that do now, only need to look at the love out there today for Anissa to see that it is real.
Issa´s last blog ..For Anissa
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Becky Reply:
November 18th, 2009 at 2:32 pm
could not agree with you more. either of you.
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I know this make may you look at me differently, but you guys are my only friends. I have acquaintances. Not friends. Only you guys get me. Only you guys support me. Only you guys make me laugh. Only you kick me in the butt when I need it. You all have held me up through my some of my darkest hours. Even if you didn’t realize it. I honestly might not be here today if it wasn’t for my “internet” friends.
avasmommy´s last blog ..For Anissa
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I find that my friends whom I have met on the internet are closer to me than the friends I have known my whole life. Like Avasmommy said, You guys get me
Mariah´s last blog ..Once again the internet does some good
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I just read the link you posted. Wow. I hope she is ok. Please keep us updated.
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I’ve met genuine people online. You are one of them. You are one of those who will force me to blog just so I can let you get to know me better online, so that we don’t have so much catching up to do when we finally meet IRL. xoxo
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