Comments on: Forgiveness minus the drama

By: Amanda (Garibay Soup)

Amanda (Garibay Soup) — Sun, 29 Nov 2009 03:58:17 +0000

LOVE this post, Becky. I feel like you and I have a LOT in common in this department. I too am doing exactly what you just typed out here with my sister. Here’s to no more drama!
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By: Amanda

Amanda — Fri, 20 Nov 2009 18:48:10 +0000

I totally get what you are saying. That said even though I agree with walking away from the drama I’m not sure that forgiving is always right either. I can walk away easily but not necessarily forgive.

Good post – and no, I don’t think you are a drama queen.

By: Vinomom

Vinomom — Fri, 20 Nov 2009 04:26:26 +0000

One of the hardest lessons I’ve had to learn (and still haven’t perfected it) is to keep my nose out of other’s peoples crap! One of my worst traits is I LOVE gossip. I can’t help it, I do. But I try to stay as uninvolved as I can. In 2005 I got too involved in Office Drama, and even though I honestly did nothing wrong – I was fired! (asked to resign, but same difference) It was such a big wake up call.

I think anyone who can look inwards and ask themselves the questions you are asking yourself is a mature and thoughtful person, NOT a drama queen!
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By: Issa

Issa — Thu, 19 Nov 2009 17:16:51 +0000

OMG you are not a drama queen. Would you like me to tell you people who are???

I think it’s hard to avoid it completely though. I try really hard and have been better about it lately. Heck, I’ve even had a few haters on my site who I just deleted without a word in the past few weeks. Not worth the time, not worth the energy. Some people will always believe it is about them. We get involved, because you and I care about things very intensely. Doesn’t make either of us drama queens, just um emotional friends.

Too a man, I think any woman can be/generally is a drama queen. M…um your husband mr. no name, may not be the person to ask.
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By: avasmommy

avasmommy — Thu, 19 Nov 2009 16:58:23 +0000

You are SO not a drama queen. Drama queens go out of their way to stir up trouble, insert themselves into situations that aren’t about them, and really enjoy upsetting the apple cart. That is not the Becky I have come to know over the last few months.

I think it’s safe to say almost nobody enjoys drama, but you can’t always avoid it, especially when your heart is involved. You do have a choice in how far to take it and what part you play. I read a fantastic quote years ago, and it speaks directly to what you are saying: “When you forgive, you set YOURSELF free”. That doesn’t mean you have to let the troublemakers back into your life. It just means you let go of the hurt and anger and move on. I’ve had to remind myself of that on more than one occasion lately. It’s never easy, and I think it’s great that you are dealing with your issues that way.
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By: Karen

Karen — Thu, 19 Nov 2009 16:35:40 +0000

I have been called a drama queen many times. I give into the drama in life way more than I should. There is no doubt about that. But I live my in a big way and I am overly emotional with all my emotions. Good things are Fantastic and Bad things are Earth Shattering. It is just the way I am built. I don’t let emotions go easily. I know how to be logical, but emotions are so much more human.

I don’t think there is anything wrong with being emotional and passionate as long as you don’t let it control your life.
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By: SoMi's Nilsa

SoMi's Nilsa — Thu, 19 Nov 2009 16:05:15 +0000

Sometimes passionate people become passionate about the wrong things. You’ve said it perfectly here … you just need to redirect that passion to the positive things in your life!
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By: mel

mel — Thu, 19 Nov 2009 14:45:52 +0000

I don’t think you’re into drama. I think you are passionate and emotional. Just be you. That’s who we love.

By: Lu

Lu — Thu, 19 Nov 2009 14:40:03 +0000

I don’t think you are a drama queen, I just think that you can be emotional. When emotions take over, or you get passionate about something it can seem like drama. It’s not though, always. I think you have it all right though and it’s the same thing I do. I look around and see my wonderful husband and son and know that whatever else is going on, THIS is mine and my focus is to keep us happy before anthing else. Luv ya mama.
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