My Thanksgiving trip to Ohio
Hi. I’m alive. My blogging hiatus lasted longer than I thought it would but omg I was so busy at work yesterday. I had a great time…relaxed A LOT which was much needed…saw a lot of my family…took a lot of pictures and of course, ate a lot. I went about this trip differently than my other trips. I made no plans to see any friends. At first I hated that I was going about it that way. But I knew if I started making plans to see friends then I’d be SO tied up trying to be fair and see everyone I could and then I’d be stressed and busy and annoyed. I just couldn’t handle it this time. Especially not for a holiday. I saw 1 friend the whole week I was there. I hung out with family. I laughed. I watched movies. I just had a really nice time.
It was so great to see my mom. I still worry about her. She seems like she’s getting more and more crazy with each time I see her. Just repeating a lot of the same things…worse speech…more forgetful. Makes me sad. I try to cherish each time I see her because who knows when it will be the last, you know? I hate to sound ominous but it is what it is. It made me so happy though to see her bursting with joy at having all 3 of her grandkids together. I was super excited to see my nephew again. It had been a year since I saw him last when I hugged him and kissed him last week. So, here are a couple of pictures from the trip. I took way too many to post so I picked 2 of my favorites.


By the way, crappy family member? Still crappy. Shocker, yes I know.
In other news, Hannah’s birthday party is this weekend. We always do it a couple weeks before her birthday. She’ll be 7 on the 18th. 7. How in the hell do I have a 7 year old?
Oh yeah- and we get to go out like grown ups tomorrow night for our anniversary finally. Super excited about this!
And um, they’re saying it’s going to snow here today. It’s snowed 2 times in the 8 years I’ve lived here. My ride home from work today is going to be kick ass *insert major sarcasm* Have a great weekend y’all!
Success and Thanksgiving
I can’t even explain what a crazy busy weekend I had. And I’ve been JUST as crazy today all day long. I wanted to update y’all really quick though. Last night I had a monumental photo session. By that I mean I got paid for the 2nd time AND it was the 1st time that it wasn’t friends! I actually got hired by strangers to do pictures. That’s huge to me. Can I just say that it was scary and nerve wracking and exciting all at once. I haven’t even had time to edit any to put on here SO you’ll just have to take my word on it and if you’re friends with me on facebook, you can check them out on there
Oh and we had Thanksgiving dinner a few days early at Hubs’ mom’s house yesterday. It was so good and now I can’t wait to eat again….twice…on Thursday. There goes my ever lasting diet that I’m always on.
Anyway, posting will be light for the next week or so. I’ll be in Ohio from this Wednesday until Tuesday next week. I don’t know if I’ll be posting again until after that. So, if this is the last time I post til then, I hope and pray you all have a great Thanksgiving and remember just how much you have to be thankful for. Ever since since Anissa had her stroke I’ve kissed my babies lots and have been ever so thankful that I’m with them and that I’m healthy. Happy Thanksgiving!
Thankful
What is it to be thankful? To be TRULY thankful? So many of my friends have been going through a lot lately. That’s not to say that I haven’t been going through things either…but my problems seem miniscule compared to theirs. One of my friend’s mom is in the hospital with 9 brain tumors and they’re worried she won’t make it. It makes me thankful that although my mom is sick, she’s still at home. She’s ok right now. I can’t even think about her not being here without getting very upset. But she’s here now. I need to focus on the NOW. I’ll be seeing her in 3 weeks. I’m counting down the days. What else is there to be thankful for? I’ve got another friend who can’t afford to buy diapers for her baby until Saturday. It’s Wednesday and they’re running low. Just last night I texted Hubs to stop by the store and get diapers for the baby because we were almost out. Simple as that. We need diapers, he buys them- end of story. I just don’t even consider the fact that some people can’t just go out and buy diapers or formula or milk whenever they want to. I’m thankful that even though I live far from my mom, I’m usually able to get up there at least once if not twice a year to see her and my other family. Not everyone is able to do that. They move away and go years without seeing their family. That is something I can’t even fathom. What else? Health. Health is a big one. I constantly complain about wanting to lose weight…that I can’t stand the size I am now. Then I think about starving people who would give anything to have to struggle to lose weight instead of struggling to figure out where their next meal is and how they’re going to GAIN weight to survive. I know everything is relative and you have to put everything into perspective within your OWN life. But still. Sometimes I need a reality check. Sometimes I need to be grateful that I have enough food that I’m struggling to lose weight. I need to be grateful that I have my health instead of wishing that my back didn’t ache so much after walking up and down the stairs with my baby in my arms….That’s another one. So thank ful for my children. I’ve got a handful of friends who are trying to have a baby. And years later are still struggling. What they would give for sleepless nights with an infant and arguments with a 6 year old…..for an aching back after carrying their baby for a long time. Thankful.
I’m thankful for all of this. It’s almost Thanksgiving. Don’t forget to be thankful.
Full
i’m full of enough turkey, stuffing, and mashed potatoes to last a lifetime. it was so good. and i’m so blessed to be full of great family and friends. because isn’t that what the holidays are really about anyway? spending time with the people you love? i only wish my mom could be down here for it…and even yes, i wish my dad was alive for this time of year. i think he is going to be very missed this christmas season.
but i DID take pics yesterday. the turkey was so effin good. i need to learn how to bake a freakin turkey like this.
hope you all had a great thanksgiving. tomorrow is the party of the year or as i’d like to call it the poty lol. can’t freakin wait. happy anniversary Hubs. thanks for the best 6 years of my life!
Thanksgiving, Weather, Blogging, and Anniversaries
i leave you with 4 things before the long weekend. I plan to post though because i need to change my theme friday!
1. I hope you all have a great thanksgiving filled with delicious food and great family.
2. Its in the 80s today. Tomorrow it will be in the 50s. big weather changes like that totally screw with me. i’m going to freeze!!!!
3. i totally gotta pimp out valley girls blog. i just started reading it this week because she commented here and i gotta say its quite fascinating.
4. Saturday is me and Hubs’s 6 year wedding anniversary. it seems like we’ve been married for way longer because we’ve been together for 9 years. but we are celebrating saturday with friends who have birthdays that same day. there will be a fancy dinner involved. and a limo. and dancing. and a whole heck of a lot of pictures! i think i’m going to overload myself with pictures this weekened because when I DO take pics i have to put them in like 400 different places online. and crop them. and edit them. and it takes me forever. and i’ll be doing alot of it from home instead of work so yeah, that will be even MORE fun lol. ANYWAY my point is that on friday i’m going to work on the thanksgiving pictures so that on monday i can work on the anniversary night out pics…got it?
yeah, me neither. lol.
have a good one yall!
One down, One to go
we had our thanksgiving dinner yesterday at matts mom’s house and it was so delish…but not before we had some kick ass food and a great time with our friends at a hibachi restaurant saturday night!

and then they came over to our house to chill


lately she’s been on a kick of smiling like this. i dunno why lol

thats me and hubs’ sis:)

and of course normal goofy times with Nettie and matts step dad

so i’m working on making this blog private but i want to be sure i have everyone’s email addresses that wants to read this down before i go private. because blogger sucks and once i DO go private there is no way for yall to email me to even ask me for access. so you have a few more days. please PLEASE email me if you want to keep reading!!!!
What I did last nite
Nettie’s thanksgiving lunch is today at school. i was in charge of baking cookies for 13 little people.
and i also bought our turkey to fry sunday morning.
i’m so ready for thanksgiving. its not even funny.
and one more thing—-i’m seriously considering making this blog private. its been on my mind for a couple days now. if i DO do this i’ll need yalls email addresses. please PLEASE email me at queenym5@hotmail.com so i can add you to my list of invites if i do decide this is whats best. if i do do this it wont be til next week so you have this weekend to get me your addresses…










